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Oh the intensity that is love, especially when you're a teenager. In search for my own identity and my own heart's peace, here's a collection I gathered.
 
If you want to skip the teen stuff and get into some life application, scroll down farther.

This time it's over. I'm keeping my heart. I'm gonna be strong and not fall apart. It'll get better; I'll no longer cry. In a couple of weeks I won't want to die. I won't want to go back; I'll be able to sleep. It won't hurt so bad, and it's won't feel so deep.
 
I'm convincing myself: Yes, I'll find someone new. I won't be alone, and I won't be with you. You're waiting for me to crawl back to your side. But, no, not this time; I'm keeping my pride. So Good-Bye forever, I'll be on my way. It's gonna take time, but I'll be okay.
 
Spiteful words hurt your feelings, but silence breaks your heart.

 

I'd rather be a fool with a broken heart than someone who never had a part of you!

Worst feeling in the world: the one you love not loving you back

Don't marry the one you can live with, marry the one that you can't live without

 

Love is friendship, friendship is love. If love fails, friendship should remain, friendship is the foundation of love; it is much easier to turn a friendship into love than love into friendship. Love is friendship set on fire

 

There is no long distance in love...It always finds a way to bring two hearts together no matter how far or how long the one you love is away from you

 

Love makes life so confusing, but without love, would you want to live?

 

when scientists do discover the center of the universe dont be disappointed that its not you

 

Ashes to ashes, dust to dust if it wasn't for women your things would rust

 

You're the one I kiss, you're the one I hug, you're the one I hold, b/c you're the one I love

 

I wish my mom told me the same thing about guys as she did about scary movies "Don't worry honey they're all fake"

 

I think that the world would be a better place if those darned kids would just give the silly rabbit his Trix!

 

Children in the dark cause accidents, accidents in the dark cause children

 

Don't look back...someone might be gaining on you!

 

As we grow older, it becomes difficult to just believe. It's not that we don't want to, but too much has happened that we just can't....

The harder you fall...the higher you bounce...

Unfortunately, some people don't hear you until you scream...

We can only learn by loving...

Dark clouds hang over me sometimes...but I'll work it out..

What I want is what I've not got. But what I need is all around me.

 

A kiss is just a kiss until you find the one you love, a hug is just a hug until it's the one your thinking of, a dream is just a dream until you make it come true, love is just a word until it's proven to you.

I've wanted you since the day I saw you, but you looked the other way, I'm still in love with you and I always will be, I just can't stop loving you, what can I say?

 

I would tell you to go to hell, but all dogs go to Heaven

 

Why do I always put up with everything you do? You hurt me so much, yet I still love you, it pisses me off when I think it all through then I realize I always fall for you, but I feel your someone special and I just cant stop loving you

Everyone says to give up on you, but they don't see you like I do. You're the one who broke my heart; you're the reason my world fell apart. You're the one who made me cry, yet I still love you and I dont know why

 

I hate the way ur always right I hate it when u lie I hate it when u make me laugh, even worse when u make me cry, I hate it when our not around & the fact u didn't call, but mostly I hate the way I don't hate u not even a little bit not even at all..Beware of the players, theyllsteal heart, & theyll give it back once its all torn apart. Dont let them suck u into their game cause once you loses youll never be the same

 

I was finally gettin over u believin that we were through, I even had crushes other than u, I was walkin with my head held high, thinking i wasn't gonna fall, then u had 2 go and smile at me and ruin it all..

 

As long as there are tests, there will be prayer in public schools

 

I could hurt you like you hurt me. I could say I never loved you...but I'm not supposed to lie

 

I have PMS and a gun..now what were you saying?

 

A bell ain't a bell until you ring it. A song ain't a song until you sing it. The love in your heart wasn't put there to stay, because love ain't love until you give it away

 

The way I see it is the more people that hate me the less people I have to please

 

Kissing is a habit. Fuckin is a game. Guys get all the pleasure. Gurls get all the pain. He says he loves you, you believe its true, but when your stomache starts to swell he says hell wit you. 16 minutes of pleasure, 9 months of pain, 3 days in the hospital and a baby with no last name. The baby is a bastard, the mother is a whore. It never would have happened if the rubber hadn't torn.

 

I'm gonna smile like nothing's wrong, talk like everything's perfect, act like it's just a dream, and pretend he's not hurting me.

 

I loved you when I thought we would be together forever. I loved you when I thought you were gone for good. I even loved you when you came back again, and now I still love you when we have to say goodbye and its really the end.

I just want you to know, that I don't regret a single moment that I spent with you

 

Something in your eyes makes me want to lose myself in your arms. There's something in your voice that makes my heart beat fast, hope this feeling lasts the rest of my life

 

If the heart is one of the strongest muscles in the body, then why does it break so easily?

I guess somewhere in my heart, I'll always love him. He carved out this piece of me that I can never have back and even if I could it wouldn't matter because he's torn it to shreds. So now there's this hole that only he can fill. The thing is I know he'll never, ever fill it. Because now he's off with some other girl and he forgot the way back into my heart. If only he'd call and ask for directions.

Just because you've left me doesn't mean I've forgotten you. I couldn't do that - forget you like you've forgotten me.


 

I would rather be physically hurt than emotionally hurt...because you can put a Band-Aid on your finger, but not your heart.

I'm trying really hard not to cry over you cause every tear is just one more reminder that I don't know how to let you go.

 

We talk like we know what's going on, but we don't. We don't know anything. We're young and we're gonna screw-up a lot. We're gonna keep changing our minds and even sometimes our hearts. And through all that, the only real thing we can offer each other is forgiveness.

 

Your heart decides who it likes and who it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it all on its own when you least expect it or even when you don't want it to. It loves who it wants to and there is nothing you can do about it.

 

If your going to make me cry at least be there to wipe away the tears.

 

Fighting for peace is like fucking for virginity

 

Wanted by many, taken by none, seein' some, but waiting for one

 
Fool me once, shame on you.  Fool me twice, shame on me.
 
When you pay for experience, keep the receipt
 
You only fail when you fail to try.
 
Judge your boyfriend by how he treats your best friend.
 
Three important words in life:
Cheat, Lie, Steal, Drink
If you cheat, cheat death.
If you lie, Lie about your age.
If you steal, steal someone's heart.
And if you drink, don't have one with me.
 
There's a danger in loving someone too much and it's sad when you know it's their heart you can't trust. There's a reason why people don't stay who they are: Sometime's love just ain't enough.
 
Never be afraid to come to me and cry.
Never be afraid to look me in the eye.
Never be afraid to tell me how you feel.
Remember: You're my girls and we got to keep it real.
 
A Memory lasts forever, never does it die.
True friends stay together, and never say "Good-Bye."
Beauty is skin deep, but attitude is to the bone.
 
You can make fun of the Backstreet Boys, Britney Spears, NSYNC and their fans, but if you act the same way about your punk rock, you're really no better.
 
You only live once. Why throw it away? (Me)
 
Loving your enemies is the ONLY way you can be better than them.(Me) 
 
You mean the world to someone
 
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
 
When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.
 
If you can't dream, you can't love. And if you can't love, then you just can't live.
 
I wake up every morning, put on my face; the one that's gonna get me through another day. It doesn't really matter how I feel inside; life is like a game sometimes. (A. Lavigne) 
 
Don't waste your time on anyone who won't waste their time on you.
 
Sometimes you have to sacrifice love to save a friendship.
 
True friends are loving. True friends care. And in the end true friends are always there.
 
There's only one thing I've learned in life: It goes on.
 
If you don't stand for something, you will fall for everything.
 
Tears are words the heart can't say.
 
Never give up if you still wanna try.
Never wipe your tears if you still wanna cry.
Never settle for the answer if you still wanna know.
Never say you don't like them if you can't let them go.
 
Sometimes you have to honk your own horn 'cause if you don't, no one will know.
 
You can't kill something that doesn't want to die.
 
Life's a game. But as long as you still live it, you win.
 
Everything happens for a reason.
 
You can't kill a slut; They're already dead.
 
I'm not supposed to love you, I'm not supposed to care.
I'm not supposed to spend my life wishing you were there.
I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you do.
I'm sorry, I just can't help myself, I fell in love with you.
 
You may shoot me with your words.
You may cut me with your eyes.
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
but still, like air, I'll rise.
 
For all the people who talk about me:
Thanks for making me the center of your world.
 
It;s okay to kiss a fool.
It's okay to let a fool kiss you.
But never let a fool kiss you.
 
It's not like I wanted to be the one holding your hand.
I just didn't want her holding it.
 
Do I got your word or your lie?
 
Love is when you don't want to sleep because reality is better than a dream.
 
Just because lips haven't met doesn't mean hearts haven't joined.
 
You broke my heart into pieces.
So, now it's my turn to break something of yours.
 
Kindness is in our power.
Even when fondness is not.
 
I will always love you, but that don't mean I'll always like you.
 
There are three kinds of love:
Being "in love."
Loving your family member because they are yours.
And loving your friends.
All three can last forever. (me)
 
Friends are those rare people who ask us how we are amd then wait for an asnwer.
 
Day after day, nothing seems to change. Then, pretty soon, everything's different.
 
To imagine is everything.
 
It's cool to be different. (Me)
 
Lay it on me like there's no tomorrow. (Me)
 
Love isn't what makes the world go 'round;
It's what makes the ride worth while.
 
Real love stories never have an ending.
 
A girl asked a guy if she was pretty, he said no. She asked him if he wanted her, he said no. She asked him if she left would he cry, he said no. She turned to leave, he grabbed her arm and said..you're not pretty; you're beautiful. And I don't want you; I need you. And I wouldn't cry if you left; I would die.
 
Love is like chocolate...sweet....but sometimes it can make you REALLY sick!
 
I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I'm with you.
 
Love is friendship set of fire!
 
Love is knowing that he loves you and you mean as much to him as he means to you and that when he says he loves you he has the twinklin in his eyes to let you know it is true.
 
I don't know what it is about you: ur smile, ur attitute, or just the way you make me smile when i see you walk towards me... but i just can't stop thinking of you!
 
The simplicity of being appreciated is the best gift of all.
 
Sometimes you think you know a person...until one day you realize you never really knew them at all.
 
The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.-- Abraham Lincoln
 
Friendship is like the breeze, You can't hold it, Smell it, Taste it, Or know when it's coming, But you can always feel it, And you'll always know it's there, It may come and then go, But you can know it'll always be back. - Terri Fanning -
 
Friendship is like peeing in ur pants...Everyone can see it, but only u can feel the warmth
 
Just remember, a true friend will stab you in the front
 
A friend likes you for who you are; A best friend likes u for everything u aren't
 
A friend is someone who knows all about you and still likes you.
 
You are the only you there will ever be so make yourself known!!!
 
Don't sweat the small things, you'll run out of water.
 
You have not lived a perfect day, unless you have done something for someone else who will never be able to repay you
 
I used to find myself longing and waiting for the future to come....now i long and wait for the past to return.
 
no one's good at everything..but everybody's good at something
 
To send a letter is a good way to go somewhere without moving anything but your heart.
 
One of life's secrets is to dream, and believe in your dreams, no matter how big they are.
 
I much rather be hated for who I am, than to be loved for who I'm not.
 
Loving yourself is the first step to being loved by others.
 
be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind.
 
Never make someone a priority, if you are only an option.
 
You have to be yourself. Be very open and honest about who and what you are. And if people still like you, fine. If not, that's their problem.-- Sting
 
Perfection itself is the biggest flaw
 
Take the first chance you get because you might never get a second one.
 
-l.o.v.e- is giving him the ability to break your heart but ((trusting)) him enough to know that he won't...
 
Love is not something you run into everyday, so when love runs into you, don't let it run away!!!
 
You know you've found the right person when you have a smile on your face and in your heart as well.
 
You know you have found happiness, when you stop looking for it!
 
If you add the couch, subtract the clothes, and add the lips isn't making out pretty much like math?
 
One dance with that special some can last a life time.
 
Im JEALOUS of you, you get to be with yourself all of the time!!
 
Anything worth having is worth working hard for.
 
Love is like heaven, but can hurt like hell!
 
Don't say you love me unless you really mean it 'cause I might do something crazy like believe it.
 
If people constantly depend upon you, it means that you have
something to offer.  It usually means you have something they
don't.  It means that you are the giver and they are the
recipient.  It is more blessed to be on the giving end. (from a MoutainWings issue)
 
The only real mistake is one from which we learn nothing.
-John Powell
 
Your vision will become clear only when you look
into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.--Carl Jung

 

you know you've found the right person when you have a smile on your face and in your heart as well

 

You know you have found happiness, when you stop looking for it!

 

If you add the couch, subtract the clothes, and add the lips isn't making out pretty much like math?

 

One dance with that special some can last a life time

 

Im JEALOUS of you, you get to be with yourself all of the time!!

 

Anything worth having is worth working hard for.

 

love is like heaven, but can hurt like hell

 

DONT SAY YOU LOVE ME UNLESS U REALLY MEAN IT, CUZ I MIGHT DO SOMETHING CRAZY LIKE BELIEVE IT

 

Everyday That Goez By It Seemz Like I Discover Somethíng New about You To Love It'z Incredíble To Me How One Per§on Can Make Such A *BIG* Dífference In My Lífe You Touch Me In A Way No One Else Ever Haz And Gíve Me So Many Reasonz To Love You

 
Some things are worth it. The rest is just worth praying for. (Me)
 
Love is not something you run into everyday, so when love runs into you, don't let it run away!!!



Nobody understands how much I miss you. I miss how we used to talk-and I miss all the things we used to do. I try not to admit it to myself that I still feel this way. Nobody knows that I still wake up thinking of you everyday, but I do. I still think of you & I do miss you a lot. I would give everything I have to be everything we're not

 

Do I trust someone and get fooled by phoniness?*Or do I trust no one and live in loneliness?

 

I say that I hate you because thats what I really want to believe. But deep down inside, I know that no matter how bad you hurt me, Ill always forgive you. And Im always going to be here waiting for you-for you to realize that what we had is real and that you do need me as much as I need you. I know this may take time, but dont worry, Ill be patient

 

Let me ruin your life*Let me break your heart*Then Ill ask you why we cant be friends*Let me rip your world into little pieces*Let me destroy who you thought you were*And then Ill ask if we can be friends

 

The letter I'll never send*Would calmly ask you why*You broke my heart in 2*And told my love good-bye*If I sent this letter*It would sweetly state*You tangled up my destiny*And interrupted fate!*The letter I will not write*Would casually inquire*How can you live without me*I was your one desire*If you received this letter*It would politely say*You need me in your life now*You can't go on this way*The letter I'll never send*Would then be briskly signed*"Your one and only love*the one you left behind"

 

Im gonna be strong*Im getting over you*Therell be other boys*Ill find someone new*I wont sit here with you on my mind*Im not gonna stand here and waste my time*You think I still want you*But you guessed wrong*Guess what, baby?*IVE MOVED ON

 

At times I may upset you, sometimes Ill make you mad*Sometimes my words will wound you, at times Ill made you sad*But youll never find another girl, that loves you more than me*I love you with my heart and soul, for all eternity

 

The truth is, you could slit my throat, and my last words would still be an apology for bleeding on your shirt

 

She smiles through a thousand tears and harbors adolescent fears*She dreams of all that she can never be*She wades in insecurities and hides herself inside of me

 

You were a mistake worth making

 

Friends can help you through the bad times*Bad times can help you find your friends

 

Im not saying that Im gone for goodI just have to find out what life is like without you

 

When the pain of holding on is greater than the pain of letting gothen its time to let go

 

What if finding the love of your life meant changing the life that you love?

 

I thought that I could forget you-but I was wrong*I thought I was getting over you-but its been a lie for so long*I thought Id be able to hate you-but its something I cant do*No matter what I say or do-Im still in love with you

 

The same ole shit that brings me down*Another day in this gossip town*Now I wait all confused*Feelin like Ive been used*Tryin to find a better way*To make it through this fuckin day

 

This is all I ever hearàBe a good girl-Just behave-Whats wrong with you?-Settle down-Keep ya 2 feet on the ground-Sit up straight-Stand up tall-Never falter-Never fall-Stay in school-Make the grade-Never fail-Never fade-Be a hero-Be a star-Be anything but what you are

 

What you dont know cant hurt you Its what you suspect that fucks everything up!

 

Looking back on the past, I realize that I didnt do all the things I said I would, but I did all the things I said I wouldn’t

 

What dont kill you only makes you stronger*So when you think youre hurtin me, youre only helping me last longer!

 

I really shouldn't be so surprised that that we broke up. I mean, 90 percent of high school romances do eventually end. It's just that, for some reason, I thought we were different from everyone else. That what we had was special. That we could beat the odds and live happily ever after. But then again, I guess that's what everyone thinks

 

To hate you have to hurt To hurt you have to care

 

Its funny how someone you know becomes someone you knew

 

I know that God wouldnt give me anything that I couldnt handleI just wish he wouldnt trust me so much!

 

In a world of pollution, profanity, adolescence, zits, brussel sprouts, racism, ozone depletion, sexism, stupid guys, and PMS, why the hell do people still tell me to have a nice day?

 

Ive been trying not to love you*Ive been putting up a fight*Ive been barely holding on, and letting go with all my might*Theres a part of me thats empty*That I know only love can fill*Im afraid Ill never find itAnd scared to death I will

 

You dont cry over people you dont love

 

They say youll never forget your first love-Thats because you never quit loving them

 

Promises mean everything*But after theyve been broken, sorry means nothing

 

I wonder if the fact that I still love you is a blessing or a curse*I wonder if the way you look at me makes me feel better or feel worse*I wonder if wanting you the way I do will make me succeed or love in vain*But do you know I feel?*And if you do, do you feel the same?*Do you think of me at night before you go to sleep?*Do you wish you still had me as yours to keep?*Do you understand the way you hurt me and does it hurt you too?*And if it does, do you realize that Im still in love with you?

 

I wont pretend that I wanna stop living*I wont pretend that Im good at forgiving*I still cant hate you, although Ive tried*I still love you*And love is stronger than pride

 

Life is full of different things*Its full of hope and sorrow*The things you choose to do today*Could affect your life tomorrow*Life is full of decisions*So be careful what you choose*Cause life is yours to cherish*But its also yours to lose

 

I wish that I could believe in what I feel*Ive been fooled so many times before*I dont even know what is real

 

Ive seen many boys, but baby youre it*You got me drawin hearts around your name n shit*The way you talk*The way you smell*Neva thought Id be trippin over you*But damn I fell!

 

Its not what I feel for you*Its what I dont feel for anyone but you*Someone asked me what I saw in you*And my only answer was*Everything

 

 

You only know what you see*No one knows what its like to be me

 

Im done cryin every night*Im done with this hurtin that isnt right*Im done playin games with you*Im done losing friendships that may never have been true*Although Im done having my mind fucked with*Im not done being your friend*Weve been through too much for it all just to end*Take my hand if you wont take my heart*I may never get over you, but this is a start

 

I just wanna say I love you & thank you*For everything that youve done*Youve been by my side through thick and thin*And I know that youre the one

 

If you cant get someone out of your mind, maybe theyre supposed to be there

 

I dont want things to completely end*You broke my trust when you messed around with my friend*For now we need to take a break*Just know that you put our relationship at stake

 

All that I ask is that you forever remember me as the one who loved you most

 

I looked up at him & he looked down at me and it was like for that split second, we forgave each other for everything

 

When you talk to me, don't be surprised if I don't look in your eyes. It isn't because I don't want to look in them, it is because I don't want you to look into mine-because then you would see how much pain I really am in. You would know that I still love you, and that there isn't anyone else I want to be with. You will know how extremely weak I am when it comes to my feelings, and that I'm not all that strong. That's why I won't look at you when you talk to me

 

What do I do? I mean, Im sitting here, and everythings hitting me all at once.  The tears fall slowly down my cheek and my whimpers can barely be heard.  Im pushing what I love the most, you, away, and I know its what I need, but the pain you must be feeling is hurting me far more than words could even say

 

All our lives we search for someone to love, someone to make us complete.  We choose partners and change partners.  We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, someone perfect is searching for us too

 

A little jealousy in a relationship is healthy; it's nice to know that someone is afraid to lose you. 

 

No regrets-Just lessons learned

 

Youre just another boy*With just another smile*Are you just another mind game?*Tell meAre you even worthwhile?

 

Why is it so easy to talk trash about the ones you love when youre trying to impress the ones you wish loved you?

 

Im a girl of many smiles, but this time Im not okay inside*I really feel like dyin*My eyes get so swollen cuz of all the cryin*Im sorryBut Im really tryin

 

You said you'd never hurt me & that you'd never make me cry*Boy, I must admit*You told a perfect lie

"I'm Sorry" doesn't change anything, although I need you to say it.


People are always telling you that change is a good thing, but what they're really saying is that something that you didn't want to happen just happened


 

Nothing has turned out as we expected. It never does. Life is under no obligation to give us what we expect. We take what we get and are thankful that it's no worse than what it is

 

There is fate--but it only takes you so far because once you're there--it's up to you to make it happen

 

I'll do what I wanna do*I'll see who I wanna see*Be who I wanna be*Ain't nobody stoppin me

 

I'm sorry for anything I did*I've never been untrue*Cuz in this world of craziness*The only one I can trust is you

 

All you hoes love to hate on me and show me who my true friends be*When shit goes down and sides be taken, you'll see who's real and who is fakin*Haters hate on my game-Always be strong*To all you bitches, keep tellin your lies-It just tells me how much I'm on your mind*All you do is stare in my direction, but can you help it? I'm pure perfection*Gurls love to hate and call me a hoe, when the real me, they don't even know!*They act like I'ma cry over this shit, damn, you really don't know this bitch!*I know I have you mesmerized and you look at me with hate in your eyes*Do you just hate what you can't be? Is that why you love to hate on me?*Hate is for the haterz, love is for the true, you lil hoez are just bug-a-booz*Quit trying to hold me down, you're not going to make me frown*See all your tricks don't get me pissed*Cause you fuckers are easily dismissed

 

Just because lips haven't met, doesn't mean hearts haven't joined

 

Everytime you close your eyes at night*You know somethin in your heart just ain't right*And things aren't the way you wish they'd be*Even though you're with her, I know you're thinkin about me

 

I hate this feeling*It's one I know well*It's called a heartbreak*And it hurts like hell

 

I can forget the pain you put me through*But I just can't forget the special times I shared with you

 

Forget the past...But remember what it taught you

 

I never wanna speak to you again*You used to be my man, my trust, my best friend*You told me you loved me, but only to my face*Although you hurt me, no guy can ever fill your space

 

Those cold-hearted rumors that were never true, only brought my love closer to you

 

Just because 2 people are apart, doesn't mean they don't love each other with all their heart

 

I used to smile when I told people you were mine*Now I can't even smile and say your name at the same time

 

Sometimes you forgive someone, simply because you want them in your life

 

Sometimes the feelings you start to have again are the feelings you never stopped having

 

The hardest thing is walking away from something you know is right

The only thing worse than a broken heart, is knowing that you'd give him a second chance, and he'd do it again

 

True love is when you miss him before he's gone*When you could listen to him talk all night long*When the sound of his voice gives you butterflies*When you can see him smile when you close your eyes

 

Have you ever been in a situation where the best thing you could do is the hardest thing you've ever done?

 

Nothings perfect-->But the way I see it, if we weren't meant to be, then all the fights we had wouldn't have been worth all the tears

I know if there was anything that I could rewind*It would be the day I realized that love is blind*That day that you walked out'a my life for good*And I never thought you ever would*I want to be the lead in your life again*But, baby, I messed up*And I SO regret cheatin

Sittin in my room cryin to myself*As I glance at your picture on my shelf*You were the love of my life for so long*Why do you want to do me so wrong?*I guess I never gave quite enough*Damn, do I hate bein in love

Somehow the conversation mentioned you're name*And someone asked if I knew you*Lookin away, I thought of all the times that we had together*Sharing laughter, tears, jokes, and much more*And then without explanation you were gone*I looked to where they were waitin for an answer, and I said softly*"Once...I thought I did"

It's amazing after all we've been through*The good times and the bad*How we can walk past each other and pretend it never happened*Give each other an awkward smile...and move on

Everyone says trust your heart*But my heart has led me to pain so many times before*I don't know what to trust anymore

You make me feel happier than any other guy could*And you make me feel things I never thought I would*You make me forget my problems and my pain*You're like my sunlight through all the rain*You hold me in your arms like no other guy can*No other guy will be right, you must understand*So be with me baby*Even just for tonight*So I can feel Heaven*When you're holdin me tight

I thought this was supposed to feel good*And if you were really mine I guess it would*I didn't fall in love cause it was the right thing to do*I just blindly went ahead and fell for you

How do you think that it makes me feel when you tell me that it wasn't for real?*When your sweet lips say it's not meant to be*Do you take pleasure in killing me? 

I don't think you understand*How hard it is to talk to you just as a friend*I wanna tell you I love you*-But I never can-

I smile each time I hear your voice...I can't help it...It's not by choice

I thought missing you was only for a day*I thought needing you would go away*Why do I see you in everything I do?*Why does every song remind me of you*Maybe because I'm still in love with you

 

There's something about the look in your eyes*Something I noticed when the light was just right*It reminded me of times that I was alive*It reminded me that you're so worth the fight

It's so much easier to say that you don't love someone, than to try to explain to everyone all the reasons why you still do

The most beautiful smile is the one that struggles through the tears

You know you miss someone very much when everytime you think of them your heart breaks into pieces*But just a quick hello from them puts the pieces back together

It hurts to realize that the people you thought you'd love for life*Don't love you as much as you thought*And they can do without you*As if they never knew you at all

You know that it's over but you still can't let go*The way that you loved him, he'll never know*You try to get over the feelings that you had*And try not to think of how he hurt you so bad*But no matter what you do, or how hard you try*Those emotions take you over and make you break down and cry*"How could he do this?" You ask yourself each night*You thought he was the one person who could make everything alright*Even after nights of tear after tear*None of your problems seemed to disappear*You always though his love would forever last*But now it has become a thing of the past*Thoughts of killing run through your head*Instead of goin through this, you'd rather be dead*After all the "I love you's" and call after call*You realize you never meant anything to him at all*You try to solve your problems by using a knife*You think you don't have a good enough life*Even if he sees the scars on you hand*One thing's for sure...He'll NEVER understand

When you hate a person, you hate something that is a part of yourself. What isn't in us, doesn't disturb us

I'll never find another person to take the place of you*No one will ever touch my life exactly like you do*No one who's quite so thoughtful*No one I cherish so*No one will mean so much to me*I just want you to know

One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't speak

I've heard the speech a million times before "You can do better, you deserve so much more"*I get myself sick over it cause I know it's true*But I don't want better*I just want you

 

A hurting person needs a helping hand, not an accusing finger.

 

After a while you learn the difference between holding a hand and falling in love*You begin to learn that kisses don't always mean something*Promises can be broken just as quickly as they were made*And sometimes, goodbyes really are forever

 

 

Freedom
Appreciate it. Cherish it. Protect it.
 
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away
 
Whoever said that sunshine is happiness has never gone dancing in the rain.
 
Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love, tonight your true love will realize how much they love you. Between 1 and 4 in the morning, tomorrow the shock of your life will occur if you break the chain, and you will have bad luck for 10 years, if you don't pass this on To love without condition, talk without intention, to give without reason, and care without expectation ...is the heart of a true friend

 
The light is not just at the END of the tunnel...it's IN the tunnel.
 
If you suffer at the hands of an evil man: Forgive him lest there be two evil men.
 
To whom which is given...much is required
 
We don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
 
No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while, and you must forgive them for that.
 
True friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.
 
You can do something in an instant that can give you a heartache for life.
 
It's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
 
You should always leave loved ones with loving words; It may be the last time you ever see them.
 
You can keep going long after you can't.
 
We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
 
Either you control your attitude or it controls you.
 
Reguardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
 
Heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, reguardless of the consequences.
 
Money is a lousy way of keeping score.
 
My best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
 
Sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help pick you back up.
 
Sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry. But, that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
 
Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
 
No matter how hard your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.
 
Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
 
Just because two people argue doesn't mean they don't love each other, and just because they don't argue doesn't mean they do.
 
You shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
 
Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
 
Your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
 
Even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out, you can find the strength to help.
 
Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
 
The people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
 
It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
 
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"This is for the girls who have been used and abused, this is for the stupidity of the nights we've believed that something was better than nothing, though his something was nothing we'd have ever wanted.This is for the girls who have been satisified with too little and who have learned never to expect anything more: for the girls who don't think that they deserve more, because they've been conditioned for so long to accept the scraps thrown to them by guys. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games, who provide a comforting hug and a supportive audience for a story they've heard a thousand times.This is for the girls who have been there from the beginning and have heard the trite words of advice, from,there are plenty of fish in the sea, to, time heals all wounds. This is for the girls." Edit Text

"Sometimes you've got to let everything go—purge yourself . . . If you are unhappy with anything . . . whatever is bringing you down, get rid of it. Because you'll find that when you're free, your true creativity, your true self comes out."

And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
Anais Nin

Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born.
Anonymous

Spend time every day listening to what your muse is trying to tell you. The most potent muse of all is your own inner child.
Saint Bartholomew

Don't ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.
Harold Whitman

In the truest sense, freedom cannot be bestowed; it must be achieved.

Franklin D. Roosevelt



There is no greater joy nor greater reward than to make a fundamental difference in someone's life.

Sister Mary Rose McGeady



If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.



Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

Roman Emperor, A.D. 161-180 (121 AD - 180 AD)



Never to suffer would never to have been blessed.

Edgar Allan Poe



You're alive. Do something. The directive in life, the moral imperative was so uncomplicated. It could be expressed in single words, not complete sentences. It sounded like this: Look. Listen. Choose. Act.



Barbara Hall



I never think of the future - it comes soon enough.

Albert Einstein



We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be.

Jane Austen, Mansfield Park



Man does not live by words alone, despite the fact that sometimes he has to eat them.

Adlai E. Stevenson



The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

Mahatma Gandhi



Every moment is a golden one for him who has the vision to recognize it as such.

Henry Miller



Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.

Maya Angelou



What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly.

Thomas Paine



A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world. Everyone you meet is your mirror.

Ken Keyes Jr.



Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names.

John F. Kennedy



We may go to the moon, but that's not very far. The greatest distance we have to cover still lies within us.

Charles de Gaulle



Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.



Lucille Ball



Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night.

Edgar Allan Poe, "Eleonora"



All things in life are temporary and it’s only our actions that weigh it to the ground. If you want something, you have to earn it. If something steps in the way, negotiate.



- Patrick Klein



Never make a defense or an apology until you are accused.

King Charles I, of England



You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer and forge yourself one.

James A. Froude



Love all, trust a few. Do wrong to none.

William Shakespeare



Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.

Carrie Fisher



Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the ultimate.

Chuang-tzu

(369 BC - 286 BC)



What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say.

Ralph Waldo Emerson



Take the utmost trouble to find the right thing to say, and then say it with the utmost levity.

George Bernard Shaw



You must lose a fly to catch a trout.

George Herbert



It is a mistake to try to look too far ahead. The chain of destiny can only be grasped one link at a time.

Sir Winston Churchill



Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.



Steve Jobs



At 18 our convictions are hills from which we look; At 45 they are caves in which we hide.

F. Scott Fitzgerald



Love the moment, and the energy of that moment will spread beyond all boundaries.

Corita Kent



I never saw an ugly thing in my life: for let the form of an object be what it may - light, shade, and perspective will always make it beautiful.



John Constable



Work saves us from three great evils: boredom, vice and need.

Voltaire, Candide, 1759



Don't reserve your best behavior for special occasions. You can't have two sets of manners, two social codes - one for those you admire and want to impress, another for those whom you consider unimportant. You must be the same to all people.



Lillian Eichler Watson



Every day brings a chance for you to draw in a breath, kick off your shoes, and dance.

Oprah Winfrey



Don't be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.



Ralph Waldo Emerson



It is often merely for an excuse that we say things are impossible.

Francois de La Rochefoucauld



Do it now. It is not safe to leave a generous feeling to the cooling influences of the world.

Thomas Guthrie



Choose the life that is most useful, and habit will make it the most agreeable.

Sir Francis Bacon



Fear does not have any special power unless you empower it by submitting to it.

Les Brown



Use, do not abuse; neither abstinence nor excess ever renders man happy.

Voltaire



Never bear more than one trouble at a time. Some people bear three kinds - all they have had, all they have now, and all they expect to have.



Edward Everett Hale



If you can attain repose and calm, believe that you have seized happiness.

Julie-Jeanne-Eleonore de Lespinasse



The human race has one really effective weapon, and that is laughter.

Mark Twain
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Our feelings are our most genuine paths to knowledge.
    Audre Lorde

The purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to love whoever is around to be loved.
-Kurt Vonnegut

Use your imagination not to scare yourself to death but to inspire yourself to life.
    Adele Brookman

The moment we choose to love we begin to move towards freedom...
    Bell Hooks

Everything you can imagine is real.
    Pablo Picasso

One must desire something to be alive.
    Margaret Deland

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.
    Abraham Lincoln

We don't know a millionth of one percent about anything.    

Thomas A. Edison

The wisest men follow their own direction.
    Euripides

All men profess honesty as long as they can. To believe all men honest would be folly. To believe none so is something worse.

    John Quincy Adams

Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.
    Ralph Waldo Emerson

Any man who afflicts the human race with ideas must be prepared to see them misunderstood.
    H. L. Mencken

We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that in the end we become disguised to ourselves.
    Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Facing it, always facing it, that's the way to get through. Face it.
    Joseph Conrad

Every sweet has its sour; every evil its good.
    Ralph Waldo Emerson

Even on the most exalted throne in the world we are only sitting on our own bottom.
    Michel de Montaigne

With age come the inner, the higher life. Who would be forever young, to dwell always in externals?
    Elizabeth Cady Stanton

Nothing is permanent in this wicked world - not even our troubles.
    Charlie Chaplin

You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try.
    Beverly Sills

Don't let your sorrow come higher than your knees.
    Swedish Proverb

Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent.
    Isaac Asimov

What a child doesn't receive he can seldom later give.
    P. D. James

Remember that what you believe will depend very much on what you are.
    Noah Porter

Now it is time that we were going, I to die and you to live, but which of us has the happier prospect is unknown to anyone but God.

Socrates' Apology

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.
    Abraham Lincoln

Let not thy will roar, when thy power can but whisper.
    Dr. Thomas Fuller

The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today. Let us move forward with strong and active faith.

    Franklin D. Roosevelt

Every moment of one's existence one is growing into more or retreating into less.
    Norman Mailer
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People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of their character.
    Ralph Waldo Emerson

Sometimes the measure of friendship isn't your ability to not harm but your capacity to forgive the things done to you and ask forgiveness for your own mistakes.

Randy K. Milholland

What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly.
    Thomas Paine

If we cannot live so as to be happy, let us least live so as to deserve it.
    Immanuel Hermann Fichte

In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
    Martin Luther King Jr.

Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone you may still exist, but you have ceased to live.
    Mark Twain

Perserverance is a great element of success. If you only knock long enough and loud enough at the gate, you are sure to wake up somebody.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

If you think taking care of yourself is selfish, change your mind. If you don't, you're simply ducking your responsibilities.
Ann Richards

Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.

 EE Cummings

Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else.
    Judy Garland

Patterning your life around other's opinions is nothing more than slavery. --Lawana Blackwell

Sometimes we make love with our eyes. Sometimes we make love with our
hands. Sometimes we make love with our bodies. Always we make lo
ve with our hearts. ~Author Unknown

If you can't have faith in what is held up to you for faith, you must find things to believe in yourself, for a life without faith in something is too narrow a space to live.

    George E. Woodberry

The happiest excitement in life is to be convinced that one is fighting for all one is worth on behalf of some clearly seen and deeply felt good.

    Ruth Benedict

Do not, for one repulse, forego the purpose that you resolved to effect.
    William Shakespeare, 'The Tempest'

The reward of a thing well done is to have done it.
    Ralph Waldo Emerson, The Conduct of Life, 'Fate,' 1860

Always render more and better service than is expected of you, no matter what your task may be. 

He who will not reason is a bigot; he who cannot is a fool; and he who dares not is a slave.
    Sir William Drummond

The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible.
Oscar Wilde

To love deeply in one direction makes us more loving in all others.Sophie Swetch

A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and that which we take the least care of all to acquire.
    Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Every creator painfully experiences the chasm between his inner vision and its ultimate expression. -Isaac Bashevis Singer


Dwelling on the negative simply contributes to its power."
Shirley MacLaine

Admit that your own private Mount Everest exists. That is half the battle. 
Hugh Macleod

Disobedience, in the eyes of anyone who has read history, is man's original virtue. It is through disobedience and rebellion that progress has been made.
Oscar Wilde

Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with. -Mark Twain

Happiness comes of the capacity to feel deeply, to enjoy simply, to think freely, to risk life, to be needed.
Storm Jameson

"To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it."
G. K. Chesterton

"In the end, we decide if we're remembered for what happened to us or for what we did with it."
Randy K. Milholland

"I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars."
Og Mandino

"Dream dreams so big that without God they will fall."
-Unknown

"Most of us go to our graves with the music still inside of us."
"Don't ever let anyone tell you whether or not you like your own music."
-Tommy, Instant Star

Be entirely tolerant or not at all; follow the good path or the evil one. To stand at the crossroads requires more strength than you possess.
Heinrich Heine (1797 - 1856)

Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
Sir Winston Churchill

Man is born to live, not to prepare for life.
Boris Pasternak

You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do.
Henry Ford

Whatever you are, be a good one.
Abraham Lincoln
16th president of US (1809 - 1865)

Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Nothing is permanent in this wicked world - not even our troubles.
Charlie Chaplin

You don't have to specialize - do everything that you love and then, at some time, the future will come together for you in some form.
Francis Ford Coppola


“Stop acting as if life is a rehearsal. Live this day as if it were your last. The past is over and gone. The future is not guaranteed.” - Wayne Dyer

The worst of all fears is the fear of living
Theodore Roosevelt

Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is
taking less than you need.
Kahlil Gibran

The future belongs to those who prepare for it today.
- Malcolm X
US black nationalist leader (1925 - 1965)

Except our own thoughts, there is nothing absolutely in our power.
Rene Descartes

We must never be afraid to go too far, for success lies just beyond.
- Marcel Proust

The big secret in life is that there is no big secret. Whatever your goal, you can get there if you're willing to work.
Oprah Winfrey

Man must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love.
Martin Luther King Jr.

Acceptance is not submission; it is acknowledgment of the facts of a situation. Then deciding what you're going to do about it.
Kathleen Casey Theisen

Men are not prisoners of fate, but only prisoners of their own minds.
Franklin D. Roosevelt, Pan American Day address, April 15, 1939
32nd president of US (1882 - 1945)

Stubbornness is also determination. It's simply a matter of shifting from "won't power" to "will power."
Peter McWilliams

"True strength is being able to hold it all together when everyone expects you to fall apart."
-Unknown

"Happiness is that state of consciousness which proceeds from the achievement of one's values."
Ayn Rand

 Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you.
Carl Sandburg Edit Text

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